Trust is earned and not easily given, especially where horses are concerned. |
All too often, horse owners find themselves at odds with their equine friend; their personal relationship with their horse is full of confusion, fear, and mixed signals. A lot of money and time is spent sending a horse off to a trainer or bringing a trainer to the horse, which is fine and dandy, if and only if, the owner is also working with the trainer.
After a month with a trainer, the horse is doing well, the owner is eager to get his or her "fixed" horse back, Sadly, after just a few short days, the behavior patterns return and the communication is degraded again. Why? because the initial problem between the horse and the owner has not be addressed. The horse learned to respect the trainer but not the owner, so its back to square one.
I believe, whole-heartedly, the owner must also be willing to accept the new methods and use them daily, making them habit. There is no room for lazy communication where horses are concerned- fear of a horse and or lazy horsemanship are detrimental to a human and horse relationship. To a horse, an inch is a mile or more and they will use it to their full advantage.
I combine my knowledge of natural horsemanship with classical training techniques and even my knowledge of equine massage and holistic approaches to assist you with your goal of enhancing your communication skills and understanding of your horse and vice versa. When I work with you, I will not only teach you skills, but I will enforce your learning of what I teach by requiring you to do them as well. Sitting back and watching me, isn't going to help you or your horse. Repetition of the methods I pass on to you, going to significantly help you.
It is OKAY to admit you are afraid of your horse. That is the main underlying issue I find in many of my clients have, and often they have too much pride to admit to it. Trust me, I KNOW, I have been there before. What starts off as a little stand-offish behavior between horse and owner escalates into something more significant as a directly result of not being dealt with correctly from the beginning.
Well spoken. Verbalizing your fear lets you start to deal with it..and it is the single biggest thing that problems...that and lack of leadership.
ReplyDeleteLack of leadership and confidence where humans are concerned. Sadly, I feel a lot of people end up with more "horse" than they are ready for. I think trainers or those helping someone find a horse, should really really honestly approach the horse buying process a lot differently than they do. All too often people jump at first site, and we know we can't judge a book by its cover, nor a free or cheap price tag. A lot of people get in over their heads and haven't the background in training or understanding the mind of the horse to figure out how to move forward and progress in their relationship with their horse.
DeleteUnfortunately that sours many people to horses, as they develop fears and uncertainties and eventually decide to sell their horse and get out altogether. But usually this comes after they have exhausted their wallets sending their horses AWAY to other trainers for a "fix" when the fix needs to happen between them and their horse and their relationship with their horse. They end up spending a lot of money but end right back at the beginning :(